Thursday, February 26, 2009

Should I leave? Should I stay?

How will you react if your colleague told you he or she plan to resign? Will you asked him/her to go ahead or will you ask him/her to stay?

Normally I will not give any comment but I will asked about the new job. If the new job seems promising, then I don't see why he/she should not leave the company. But of cos, even if I think that new job is not good, I also will not say a word, cos it's his/her choice, right?

I think it is quite normal for colleagues to tell each other that they plan to resign, even they have not tender their resignation yet. To me, I feel telling me means they trust me, they trust that I will not go tell others such as the management.

But if a colleague asked question like "Do you think I should resign?" How will you react then? Seriously, I do not understand why ppl asked this kind of question, he/she is the one who needs to make the decision mar, how will others know? Erm.. I don't know.. ask him/her stay? ask him/her leave? I think I shall just ask him/her to figure this out himself/herself!! :p

3 comments:

ahheng said...

how does one trust a blogger? tell them then they will go blog it out (yes i know, yours is more generalized hahaha).

haha anyways, i will just tell them if got a better offer (of course lar it's always this reason else why most ppl leave current job), else stay if you are comfortable here BUT at the END OF THE END, it is your choice.

but i rarely ask/tell people i'm resigning, cause the mouth of people, spreads like virus influenza with/without knowing.

Joyce said...

haha, he wanna tell, so i just listen lar, some more he nv say cannot tell other ppl what, wuahahahhahaahaha...

by right should not tell ppl before resign lar, after resign tell then ok lar...

Forever28 said...

If I start to look out a job, it means I am not happy with my current job. Once I get the offer from the company I applied, then I will just go.