The age of 27 and above

If you do notice, when you reached the age of 27 and above, you will received a lot of invitations to weddings or to house warming, or to a full moon party. All these means ppl are settling down, setting up their home sweet home.

If you are also doing the same, you probably won't feel anything, BUT if everyone else is doing this but you, then you probably MIGHT feel something..

Let me give you an example, a friend of friend of mine, he is with his gf, Ms C for almost 10 years, Ms C is pushing him to get married, and they are planning to, then out of a sudden they broke up. This guy, very soon, found a new gf, where else Ms.C still with no one.

I've seen Ms C before, to me she's quite pretty and she don't look like she's reaching 30 yrs old. After she broke up with this guy, she seems very desperate in finding bf. I'm not sure whether she's competing with her ex in who will get a new partner first or wat, but her desperate-ness is very very obvious.

She started going out with different guys, regardless of age, but so far those i've seen is definitely younger than her, young as in probably just finished college and just started working. There's nothing wrong going out with younger guys, but younger guys normally don't plan to settle down so soon, they just finished college, wanna have fun, who wanna get married and settled down!

Her intention is to get married, but those guys she go out with just wanna pak tor first, so end up, broke up lor.. The more breaking up, the more desperate she is...

I just don't understand, it's 21st century now, she got the looks, she got a job to support herself, why she so afraid that she will end up alone? Just because everyone is doing the same thing (getting married, giving birth) doesn't means that you need to do so. If you didn't find the right guy, settling down will make your life worst!! probably end up divorcing...

~sigh. i just wanna say.. 女人不易做 (not easy to become a girl)!!