Monday, October 8, 2007

Seven years itching (七年之痒)

Seven Years Itching is a direct translation from these chinese word, 七年之痒. This normally refers to a relationship, either pak tor, or after married. It means after 7 yrs of pak-tor-ying, or after getting married for 7 yrs, if everything remains the same, you might have a relationship crisis, which may end up with break ups or divorce!

So if you tell ppl that you already pak tor for 7 yrs, ppl will normally say, huh 7 yrs already, still dowan to get married, never heard of 7 yrs itching (七年之痒) meh?? hehe.. I once asked a friend, if a couple already have problems on their relationship, after married everything will be solved meh? it might get worst! my friends said, after u get married, then you will have baby, having a baby is a change to the relationship. together the couple will take care of the baby and then this 7 yrs itching thing won't happened lar.. oo... ic ic.. got such thing ar..

well, i do agree on part of it lar. when you get together for a period of time, everything seems very boring, one of them might go out to look for more excitement. therefore in order to prevent this happen, besides having changes, the couple must also make an effort to go rescue the relationship, not when the wife having baby, the guy go out and 'sa sa guan'!!

so as a conclusion, if you pak tor 7 yrs liao, faster get married and if you married already then faster have baby. hehe..if u already have kids? err..then maybe another baby? :p

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Amen. :)